As 'rape' is being regularly redefined by feminists, how will we folks know which is which?

Rape is a horrific crime, and by legal terms it is forcible intercourse or penetration or performing such an act on someone who does not know what is going on. Some people's attempts to change that is actually doing a disservice, and can actually be de-sensitizing people to the crime. Lets' keep it straight forward and not confuse or twist things around. There is enough emotional aspects to it anyway, do not make it worse.